Hard to believe but it's been almost a week since Gertrude got here. It has been super-busy, non-stop activity. It's amazing to hear Gertrude use short sentences and phrases so early on and being so comfortable here, like she never left.
On Friday night, our friend Jennifer had a birthday party for her daughter and we went to that. She is hosting Gertrude's sister Agnese, so the two girls spent a lot of time together in the pool, almost inseparable. It's hard to know what to make of them. We are told they are not recommended to be together, but here they get along great and every couple days Gertrude wants to give her a call and talk for a minute or two.
Gertrude is getting very attached to Scott, her "Pop," early on also. While he was working out in the basement Gertrude just hung out with him for about 20 minutes by herself. She would come upstairs for a minute to get water or something, and I asked her if she needed something, and she says, "no, pop" and goes back downstairs! The day after she got here she was playing ball in the pool with Pop. At one point I went after the ball and she yells, "Mom, no!! POP!!!" So, I was kicked out of participating in the game..this one was for just those two. She is disappointed when he is not home from work and so happy to see him when he gets here.
One night, Gertrude, Tena, and I did Mary Kay facials on ourselves, the cleanser, freshener, mask and moisturizer. The mask was purple and we left it on for about 10 minutes. She and Tena thought it was pretty funny how they could barely move their lips! Anyway, we finished and Gertrude kept taking my hand and putting it on her face to feel how soft it was. Then, a couple days later she was going to bed and says, "mom, maska!" like Oh, no we forgot to mask! I told her that masking was for one time a week and she gave me a disappointed "oh" and went to sleep.
Tena is being a great big sister. She is very loving, understanding and generous with Gertrude. She gave her her Game Boy and a bunch of Barbies for her to keep. Gertrude lines her Barbies up at night on the floor next to her bed (on a pillow) and covers them up to go to sleep. She sleeps with her polar bear we gave her last year.
On Saturday we went to US Play for bowling with all the hosting families. Some other families that adopted last year were there and there was more interesting stories to be heard. The kids had a great time. Our friends, Lori and her daughter Hope came and enjoyed meeting all the families. US Play gave us free bowling, pizza and drinks, and $15.00 on a card for all the kids to play the games. Very generous and there were about 50 people! Gertrude wouldn't bowl at first but then she did after a while. She hung out with a lot of her Latvian friends and her sister, but then it was nice to see her spending some time with Tena and Hope too, not with any of her Latvian friends. After bowling, we took Ineta, the chaperone, and Gertrude's sister home with us to spend some time. Ineta speaks VERY LITTLE English but Agnese helped us with some translation and we tried to keep busy playing Uno Attack and jumping on the trampoline...less need to talk that way! She was very nice and we had a nice time. Tena and the two girls had a lot of fun jumping together and Tena and Agnese got along very well.
Father's Day was nice but Scott was a little under the weather so we didn't do much. Now Gertrude is not feeling well and has a temperature of 101. During the day today, we had her and Tena's friend Christina over. The girls had a blast together, sometimes all three playing sometimes Christina and Gertrude playing and talking in Latvian. But, Christina was so sweet and sensitive to Tena and asked if it was ok if they spoke Latvian because we don't want Tena to think we "forget her." She asked once if it is ok if she and Gertrude play for a few minutes then they all play together...(she and Gertrude needed some time to talk since they haven't seen each other since Christina has been adopted). Tena was fine with it and I was so proud of her. When Christina asked if it was ok if she and Gertrude played for a few minutes, then the 3 of them play, I told Christina how sweet she was to always think of other people. Tena agreed and said to me, "I think Christina is the best friend I've ever had." She said no one ever thinks about her like that (meaning being that thoughtful of her feelings). I thought that was great. Christina is such a great kid and I'm glad they are good friends. We ate dinner at our friend Emilia's house in the neighborhood then brought Christina back. It was a nice day for all the girls but now Gertrude is completely run down and running this fever. We are leaving in two days for Sea World. Hope we don't have a sick child for the trip. I told her tomorrow no swimming, no trampoline, just rest.
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